Getting off in your car is not as easy as it may sound. For those of you who have ever attempted it, you might have noticed the typical difficulties: avoiding hard objects like seats, steering wheels, dashboards, and gear sticks, and getting into a comfortable enough position to actually finish the job at hand.

Success partly depends on the type of car you have, so you will need to adjust the following suggestions on how to have sex in a car to apply to your own vehicle. These guidelines generally apply to a medium-size, four-door sedan.

Here are some tips to make your ride a little easier.

Positions And Activities

There are several positions that make sex in a car easier and more fun. When you’re trying to figure out how to have sex in a car, consider these maneuvers and locations:

The Back Seat

This can be woman-on-top or man-on-top, with the bottom participant lying on the back seat or the guy sitting. It works better if you pull the front seats as far forward as you can, to give you more room.

The Front Passenger Seat

Push the seat as far back as it will go and take a seat. Your partner can ride you facing you or facing the windscreen with her hands on the dash for support.

The Outside Of The Car

The hood of the car is a wonderful platform for all kinds of activities: You can go down on her while she rests her legs on your shoulders, her bottom on the edge of the car or you can enter her from front or behind while she leans her body on the hood — and you get fresh air at the same time.

While Driving

Your girl can easily get your appendage in her mouth while you drive — slowly and carefully, for both of you. Avoid bumps or potholes and keep your eye on the road at all times, and if you feel like you are losing it, pull over immediately. A blow job is not worth damaging your car or losing the use of your legs or worse, your girlfriend’s or someone else’s life.

Safety

There are many ways to get into a pickle while you try to have sex in a car: You, your partner’s and Joe Public’s physical safety are of paramount importance, simply because while you are so distracted you can’t keep your eye on other things. The key here is getting sorted before you start. So, park somewhere where you won’t roll off a cliff or get clipped by other vehicles, pull on the hand brake firmly and do your seat adjustments before you start.

Law

Most places in the world prohibit public displays of indecency, which is exactly what you are proposing to do when you try to figure out how to have sex in a car. You can be arrested, you can be fined, and you can be very, very embarrassed. However, in some countries, you can and will be arrested and sent to prison to serve a sentence for being so disrespectful.

Things To Keep In Mind

Keep handy some tissues or a roll of toilet paper for cleaning up, possibly a small pillow for extra comforts, water or a drink to refresh, and condoms. Avoid candles, as they are a fire hazard.

Cleanliness

You need to make sure you car is clean. Crumpled snotty tissues, takeout containers with old food in them, or McDonald’s cups leaking old flat Coke are not hot, and will detract from your efforts to have sex in a car. Crumbs and sand/dirt on the back seat will be itchy and uncomfortable, so vacuum! Do a quick clean up before your date. Condoms can also help to prevent sticky messes in the car. Without a lecture on safe sex, in a very practical sense they keep you, your girl and your car clean.

Location

Choose your spot reasonably carefully. Keep in mind that any adults or children that may be about don’t need to see you having sex in your car. If exhibitionism is your thing, choose an area that will suit you, i.e., an alleyway in the red light district. Otherwise, choose a quiet spot with some nice scenery, perhaps a nearby waterway, beach or park. If you don’t have a lot of pretty options orgas, an empty parking lot will do the trick. Try to avoid cliche locations where everyone else goes.

Imagination is a virtue: use it.

Rev It Up

Sex in a car is not always great, but with a little thought and planning, you can use this exciting and interesting location within a location to make a little nasty love. Be careful, use your common sense and show respect to the rest of the world, but have plenty of fun. Get a little more inventive once you get the hang of the above positions and enjoy.

• What You Need To Know
• Too much masturbation may lead to a reduced response to other people’s touch.
• Possible side effect include abrasions or swelling of the penis.
• Compulsive masturbation can be a problem if it affects other aspects of your life.

The Negative Side Effects Of Masturbation Your Parents BelievedThere’s a lot of history behind the negative side effects of masturbation. Since man could grab his pecker and stroke it, people have been coming up with myths that it’s bad for you. Will masturbating cause acne? If it did, 95% of guys would be walking around with a face full of zits. Masturbation must cause sterility, right? While it’s true that having consecutive ejaculations will reduce your sperm count and the volume of semen compared to the first ejaculation, your testes are a factory for sperm production and masturbation isn’t going to close this factory down. Does masturbation cause hairy palms? I don’t even understand this one; is semen Miracle-Gro? The same can be said for blindness, insanity and a whole host of other myths that have been proved false by medical science.

So there have to be some negatives, right? Masturbation itself is harmless and there are no proven long-term physical issues with moderate masturbation habits. However, we can all experience some side effects, whether they are short-term, long-term or related to chronic masturbation habits.Touching Breeds Unwanted FamiliarityOne side effect of masturbation is that subsequent ejaculations will take longer. If you masturbate a few times before a date and, hopefully, proceed to have sex, you’ll probably find more difficulty reaching climax. Thankfully, giving our penis a day or two to recharge should do the trick. In addition, we each know the secrets to getting ourselves off. Masturbating can sometimes create an individual orgasm effect where we train our bodies to respond to our own familiar touch and have a reduced response to other people’s touch, resulting in a tougher time reaching climax with others. A lot of guys can relate to this.

Our hard-ons may also be affected by masturbation as well. After each ejaculation, you’ll notice the firmness of the next erection may get slightly softer and spongier, depending on how close apart the erections are. There’s little evidence that too many erections or masturbation will have an effect on your erection in the future. There’s a wealth of evidence that points to age, diet, smoking, and cardiovascular health as factors that affect your beat-meat getting stiff. Another side effect of masturbation is abrasions or swelling of the penis. Some people have rough hands, calluses, use vigorous strokes, or don’t use lube.

Ouch!Masturbation And GuiltMasturbation can also have a negative psychological impact on a person. Many people feel shame and guilt because of their masturbation habits. Whether it’s a cultural, religious or moral issue, people can be very hard on themselves. The tug of war between what feels natural and pleasurable versus what they were told to refrain from can have lasting harmful effects on a person’s self-esteem, confidence and self-love. Psychosomatic effects can also occur, where physical symptoms are the result of psychological factors (feeling shame, guilt, anxiety can manifest into things like headaches, back pain, chronic pain, etc).The Problems With Chronic MasturbationBiologically, chronic masturbating can affect our brain and body chemistry because it can overproduce sex hormones and neurotransmitters. This overproduction impacts each person differently, and can range from fatigue, pelvic pain, vision changes, lower back pain, testicular pain, or hair loss. There is current research that states increased testosterone production is linked to DHT production, which is associated with male pattern hair loss.

However, we have to be careful of the conclusions we extrapolate from research. I still need more evidence to believe hair loss because correlation doesn’t imply causation. Did you know large consumptions of alcohol reduce testosterone production? So does this imply that drinking booze will reduce my testosterone levels, subsequently DHT levels, and stop my hair from falling out? Doubtful — I’d just be bald and drunk. If you notice any of these effects, try cutting back on your masturbation habits for a few months and see if it helps alleviate your symptoms. If the symptoms are still there, you might as well keep tugging away and see a doctor for a medical checkup.

Compulsive masturbation can also negatively affect a person. What’s compulsive masturbating? There’s no set number of times; it’s associated with a person having difficulties in his life resulting from his masturbation habits. One guy masturbates six times a day and feels productive and great while the other feels the exact opposite. Compulsive masturbation can negatively affect your work, relationships, self-esteem, finances, social support, and have legal problems if you’re not able to find a balance between being responsible in life and satisfying your pleasures and desires.Where Do You Get Off?I hope I didn’t turn you off from masturbating. It’s a wonderful thing and one of the greatest gifts you can offer yourself. There are positives and negatives to everything in life: sex, singlehood, driving a car, being in a relationship, and working. We have to make sure the good outweighs the bad to find happiness.

Sometimes, a guy just needs some alone time to reconnect. Then there are times when we just want to get some satisfaction without having to seduce and take our time pleasing someone else. And so, I introduce to you masturbation techniques.

Of course, I’m not suggesting that you begin masturbating chronically and show your girl the door. Oh no. But every now and then, if you feel the need to stroke it, here are seven masturbation techniques you should try out for a little variety.

1- The Cold Climax
In the first of our masturbation techniques, masturbate as you normally would, but when you feel the sensation of ejaculation coming on, grab hold of some ice cubes or crushed ice with the other hand, then continue masturbating to completion. The feeling of cold in one hand, heat in the other, and the sensation of ejaculating will enhance the experience.

2- Rings Around Your Penis
Cover both your hands with lube, and form a ring with your thumb and forefinger. Place it around the base of your penis. Slide the ring up to the base of the glans (where the head starts). Now form a ring with the fingers on your other hand and do the same thing. Keep stroking with one ring at a time until you climax.

3- The Palm Rubber
Once you’re erect, place some lube on the inside of one hand, and rather than rub your penis with your hand, keep rubbing the tip of your penis against the palm of your hand to orgasm.

4- The ball holder
The next time you’re masturbating and feel as though you’re about to ejaculate, put your other hand over your scrotum and lightly squeeze and pull it down (or more aggressively, if you like that sort of thing). That way, you get to feel your semen traveling through your body, making it’s way to the exit.

5- The gentle tap
Although you have to have a sensitive penis for this to work effectively, this will at least demonstrate that you don’t if it doesn’t work. Keep your underwear on and make yourself erect. Once you’re at your fullest erectness, tap the tip of your penis with the tips of your fingers. It should take somewhat longer than usual for you to reach climax but when you do, oh yeah…

6- Screw your hand While standing, twist your lubed-up hand (whichever you’re most comfortable using) so that your thumb is against your belly button. Wrap your hand around your penis and, rather than stroke with your hand, move your pelvis to pump in and out of your hand. It’ll make you feel like you’re actually penetrating a vagina. Okay, maybe not.

7- The plastic bag In your bedroom (or someone else’s if you wish), fill a plastic sandwich bag with petroleum jelly and put your erect penis in the bag, squishing the jelly so that your entire penis is covered. Then, place your penis, still in the bag, between the mattress and the box spring. Pump in and out to orgasm. The best part? No mess.

In the late 1800s masturbation was considered a sin. In 1960s It was considered a mental condition or immature or undesirable behavior, leading to lack of adult responses. But today the sexual climate has changed completely.

Masturbation is an activity to explore more happiness and add sensuality to your whole sexual dimension. Masturbation provides the fastest and easiest sexual relief and satisfaction, in short this is the safest form of sex.

Masturbation is practiced to reach orgasm by self stimulating sexual organs. But some people find this not working with them. They complain that even though they were enjoying masturbation earlier it is not the same now. Few people fail to reach an orgasm through masturbation for some unknown reasons.

There can be a number of reasons why masturbation doesn’t bring an orgasm for many people. Depression, emotional instability, or the baseless worries and beliefs regarding masturbation may be obstacles to enjoy masturbation. Most of the people believe that masturbation may cause severe health problems. Masturbation is considered as a moral sin by many religions. When over powered with these feelings and worries masturbation may not bring an orgasm to people.

While it is common to think of the genitals as the most important sex organ, it is actually the brain that counts the most. For some persons it’s even possible for the body to have an orgasm, but because the brain does not perceive it, they don’t know it. When one is struck with lot of anxieties, fears and tensions even if the body feels an orgasm the brain doesn’t perceive and enjoy it.

To enjoy masturbation to the fullest certain preparations are to be taken, like preparing yourself with a bath, being in a calm and relaxed state, selecting a comfortable posture etc…. may help you to have a joyful masturbation to reach an orgasm. Each time you start caressing your body, try to keep going for longer and to increase your delight in what you’re finding out about yourself.

There are lot of advisable ways to do effective masturbation. Every one masturbates when he/she is aroused with sexual feelings. But when you begin to feel depressed, and the emotions overwhelm your arousal so you can’t have an orgasm. The best and most appreciable way to reach an orgasm is having a fantasy when you masturbate. Most people fantasize during masturbation. studies have indicated that these scenarios and images many times involve situations or people that the subject would actually encountered in real life. Let your fantasy be the one gives you the deep most sexual desire and that makes you crazy.Never have a fantasy that may bring back you to a depressed stage thus loosing your interest in the act.

Don’t forget that the most powerful part of a person’s arousal equipment is his/her mind. So it can be helpful to introduce some mental stimulation into the exercise. Try thinking of things that turn you on. Or, while you’re stimulating yourself, read from one of those erotic novels. You might even like to try caressing yourself while viewing a sexy video. There are many different ways for a girl to have an orgasm. Most girls reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation. But some girls can have orgasms from vaginal penetration alone or even through nipple stimulation or fantasizing.

Phone sex is another way to do effective and successful masturbation. You can experiment various methods over a phone. Even though most people use their hands to masturbate,instruments like vibrators and dildoes may also be used. These imitate the movements of the hand and provide sexual pleasure. Vast numbers of women nowadays enjoy using a vibrator some or all of the time. There are some truly amazing products around these days for both men and women, and the fair sex is becoming much less timid about trying them. There is no right or wrong way of pursuing solo pleasure – and everyone should experiment to find what she/he likes best. When you feel that masturbation no more help you to reach an orgasm, a sexual equipment may be helpful for you.

The mere word masturbation will make many people uncomfortable as they deeply believe that this is an act of moral and ethical offense. The guilt feeling may work as a hindrance to orgasm. Changing the attitude towards this sexual act itself will make people enjoying masturbation in the fullest sense. One should understand that it is not physically harmful, will not cause diseases or infertility, and is a normal expression of sexuality. Masturbation is a normal part of human sexual development.

Consider masturbation from a medical perspective. We can say without fear of contradiction that there is no scientific evidence to indicate that this act is harmful to the body.

Despite terrifying warnings given to young people historically, it does not cause blindness, weakness, mental retardation or any other physical problem. Knowing this itself will wipe away all the unnecessary fears and tensions from your mind and you will find masturbation more and more joyful.

Make sure that you are not doing it in a way that enhances feelings of shame or guilt about the activity! Self-pleasuring is a fun thing, and it’s certainly a natural part of human sexuality!

The act can bring about relaxation, pleasure, tension release, and physical satisfaction. Some sources indicate that masturbation in older children and teenagers can produce better control over sexual urges. Researchers generally agree that since masturbation does not usually bring the same psychological satisfaction as sexual interaction with another person, the activity declines or ceases altogether once an individual becomes involved in a sexual relationship with a partner.

Our hands and fingertips contain a lot of nerve-endings rendering them very handy (pun intended) for self-pleasure purposes. Therefore, it makes sense to include the use of our hands and fingers as one of the most effective self-pleasure tips for women.
A self-pleasure tip for women using your hands and fingers involves running your hands all over your body. Feel the smoothness and silkiness of your own skin. You may scrape your nails lightly over several places. Massage and caress yourself all over and be aware of how the said parts of your body, as well as your hands and fingers, feel as you do so.

Next self-pleasure tip for women: Venture into your own erogenous zones. Run your fingertips over your neck, your inner thighs, your inner arms, your palms, and finally, your breasts and that triangle between your thighs. Caress your breasts. You may want to do all these while looking at yourself in the mirror. Massage your breasts in a circular motion with the flat side of your palms. Feel the tingling sensation in your palms as you do so. Much like the striptease acts that you see in erotic movies, pull on your nipples and twirl them between your fingers. Notice how at certain points of this motion, there seem to be a single thread connecting the middle of your palms, the middle of your feet, your nipples and your clitoris. This will produce a-wetness between your thighs.

Finally, the final act in your regimen of self-pleasure tips for women: Touch yourself. Discover where your clitoris is. As you well know, your clitoris is the seat of all sexual pleasure. Rub your fingers and the flat of your palms in your most sensitive places. Massage your clitoris. Wet your fingers with your mouth and put your fingers inside you one by one that is, as many of them as you can take in at once. Then, go nuts!

Copyright 2005 – E.J. Davis